On my own I try and build up a wall, provide myself security and trust.
And all of the sudden, someone enters my life. He/she starts helping me dig through the rubble in the basement on another side of the building, and start building my way back up on that side. It's a side of my building I didn't even realize I needed help with because my back was turned. Since my back was turned, I could've gone my whole life without knowing about that destruction and rubble. When people enter my lives and help me dig through the rubble, they help me create something I couldn't do on my own. When they leave my life (often abruptly), they take the biggest hammer they can find and smash that wall back down, to lower than before. Learning from our mistakes are rebuilding those faulty walls, with sturdy bricks and foundation, so that, as an individual, we will never allow someone to come near our building with the possibility of knocking down the wall. It's so sturdy and now that we have learned from it, it isn't coming down. No matter what.
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